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She sat at the back and they said she was shy


She sat at the back and they said she was shy,
She led from the front and they hated her pride,

They asked her advice and then questioned her guidance, They branded her loud, then were shocked by her silence,

When she shared no ambition they said it was sad,
So she told them her dreams and they said she was mad,

They told her they’d listen, then covered their ears,
And gave her a hug while they laughed at her fears,

And she listened to all of it thinking she should,
Be the girl they told her to be best as she could,

But one day she asked what was best for herself,
Instead of trying to please everyone else,

So she walked to the forest and stood with the trees,
She heard the wind whisper and dance with the leaves,

She spoke to the willow, the elm and the pine,
And she told them what she’d been told time after time,

She told them she felt she was never enough,
She was either too little or far far too much,

Too loud or too quiet, too fierce or too weak,
Too wise or too foolish, too bold or too meek,

Then she found a small clearing surrounded by firs,
And she stopped…and she heard what the trees said to her,

And she sat there for hours not wanting to leave,
For the forest said nothing. It just let her breathe.’


Becky Helmsley
📷 – Platon Yurich

20 sentences that will maximise your social intelligence

  1. To solve an issue quickly, be soft on the person and hard on the problem.
  2. Pretend everyone was sent to teach you something.
  3. Pause in speaking + eye contact = confidence.
  4. Make people feel important with the SHR Method: Seen, Heard, Remembered.
  5. A person’s favorite sound is their name, so remember it (h/t Dale Carnegie).
  6. “Praise publicly. Criticize privately.” —Warren Buffett
  7. To give feedback, first make the other person feel you care about them.
  8. “Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments.” —Neil Strauss
  9. The best networking strategy is a helping others first strategy.
  10. Loneliness is a silent pandemic; assume people want to meet you,
  11. Practice going first, e.g., “Hi, I’m Ben.”
  12. Build the habit of responding with “Yes, and” because it advances their idea.
  13. Avoid complaining or gossiping (nobody likes to hear it ).
  14. Storytelling is a superpower; use a structure like setup, tension, & resolution.
  15. Every dog has its day because dogs are friendly (lesson in there).
  16. “The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life.” —E. Perel
  17. To discover blindspots, build an inner circle that will give you honest feedback.
  18. Normalize “I don’t know anything about that yet” as a successful answer.
  19. Record and study your speaking like an athlete watching game film.
  20. “Great leaders create more leaders, not followers.” —Roy T. Bennett

The Hidden Threat to Your Well-being

The Hidden Threat to Your Well-being
Allowing even one toxic person into your life can dramatically reduce the quality of your life.

The behavior of those we surround ourselves with “primes” the way we will operate. Research confirms that if a student lives with someone who studies seriously, they adopt the same behavior.

People who spend time with others who gossip, watch tragic news, and consume toxic television begin to behave similarly. The reality is that human beings are hardwired for daily mimicry. So, choose your associations well.

-Robin sharma

Key to Personal Growth

Every situation has a positive side and a negative side.

In truth, the universe has a built-in duality – there is peace and war, kindness and cruelty, support and challenge, youth and age, poverty and wealth, joy and sorrow, solitude and multitude, and failure and success. They all exist as pairs throughout all aspects of life.

It isn’t possible to experience just one aspect, whether positive or negative.

Seeking a one-sided life is futile, draining and disempowering, and it will hinder you from achieving your inspired dreams.

The alternative? Learn to honor both aspects within every moment.

This is what I train people to do at my seminar The Breakthrough Experience.

When you see both sides of life, you become poised, present, purposeful, objective, resilient and adaptable.

Mastering the art of seeing both sides is the art of true mind mastery which leads ultimately to life mastery.

-Dr john martini

Alaawa mere har ik shakhs noor nikle ga

Alaawa mere har ik shakhs noor nikle ga
علاوہ میرے ہر اک شخص نور نکلے گا

Main jaanta hoon mera hi qasoor nikle ga
میں جانتا ہوں مرا ہی قصور نکلے گا

Yeh khoob hum se zamaane ne zid lagai hai
یہ خوب ہم سے زمانے نے ضد لگائی ہے

Hua na mera jo us ka zaroor nikle ga
ہوا نہ میرا جو اس کا ضرور نکلے گا

Khabar mujhe thi yeh rasta nahin hai manzil ka
خبر مجھے تھی یہ رستہ نہیں ہے منزل کا

Gumaan kab tha ke khud se bhi door nikle ga
گمان کب تھا کہ خود سے بھی دور نکلے گا

Hai rahzanon se riayat yeh khaas munsif ki
ہے رہزنوں سے رعایت یہ خاص منصف کی

Ke qafilon ka hi lut kar qasoor nikle ga
کہ قافلوں کا ہی لٹ کر قصور نکلے گا

Isi umeed pe ab aur kitni umrien jeeyun
اسی امید پہ اب اور کتنی عمریں جیوں

Ke jeena laaziman ek din suroor nikle ga
کہ جینا لازماً اک دن سرور نکلے گا

Ilaaj dhoonda to dhoonda ajab tabeebon ne
علاج ڈھونڈا تو ڈھونڈا عجب طبیبوں نے

Yeh jaan nikle to dil ka futoor nikle ga
یہ جان نکلے تو دل کا فتور نکلے گا

Hazaar badlo magar aainon ke bas mein nahin
ہزار بدلو مگر آئینوں کے بس میں نہیں

Yeh aks mera yunhi choor choor nikle ga
یہ عکس میرا یونہی چُور چُور نکلے گا

Nasha hai aarzi abrak yeh chaahay janay ka
نشہ ہے عارضی ابرک یہ چاہے جانے کا

Tumhaare dil se bhi jaldi ghuroor nikle ga
تمہارے دل سے بھی جلدی غرور نکلے گا


Alaawa mere har ik shakhs
Alaawa mere har ik shakhs

Reading Books is a journey of growth

I have read many books in my life, but I don’t remember most of the information I gained from them. So, what’s the benefit of reading so many books?

One day, a student asked his professor the same question. The professor remained silent and didn’t answer that day. A few days later, the student and professor met by a river. The professor showed the student a pot with holes and said, “Let’s go get water from the river with this pot.” The pot broke on the ground. The student felt confused, thinking it was a useless task, as it was impossible to carry water with a pot full of holes.

However, he couldn’t disobey his professor’s advice, so he picked up the broken pot and ran towards the river. He filled the pot with water and brought it back, but he couldn’t go far. A few steps later, the water leaked out of the holes and fell to the ground. He tried several times but failed and felt frustrated.

Afterward, he returned to his professor and said, “I failed. I couldn’t bring water in this pot. It’s impossible for me; please forgive me.” The professor smiled sweetly and said, “You didn’t fail. Look at the pot; it’s clean now. It looks like a new pot. Whenever the water leaks out of the holes, the dirt inside the pot is washed away. The same thing happens to you. When you read a book, your mind is like the pot with holes, and the information in the book is like the water. When you read a book, you don’t remember everything. But is it necessary to remember all the content? No, because reading books gives you ideas, knowledge, feelings, emotions, and truths that cleanse your mind.

Whenever you read a book, you undergo a spiritual transformation, and you are reborn as a new person. This is the main purpose of reading books.”

Khuda ke doston ki andheri raat

Khuda ke doston ki andheri raat bhi roz roshan ki tareh chamkti hai

…خدا کے دوستوں کی اندھیری رات بھی روز روشن کی  طرح چمکتی ہے

~ahman


Khuda ke doston ki andheri raat bhi roz roshan ki tareh chamkti hai
Khuda ke doston ki andheri raat bhi roz roshan ki tareh chamkti hai

Yeh tulu-e-roz-e-malaal hai

Yeh tulu-e-roz-e-malaal hai
یہ طلوعِ روزِ ملال ہے

So gila bhi kis se karein ge hum
سو گلہ بھی کس سے کریں گے ہم

Koi dilruba, koi dil-shikan
کوئی دلرُبا، کوئی دل شِکن

Koi dil-figaar kahan raha
کوئی دل فِگار کہاں رہا


Yeh tulu-e-roz-e-malaal hai
Yeh tulu-e-roz-e-malaal hai

Marahil-e-shauq ke dushwaar hua karte hain

Marahil-e-shauq ke dushwaar hua karte hain
مرحلے شوق کے دُشوار ہُوا کرتے ہیں
Saaye bhi raah ki deewaar hua karte hain
سائے بھی راہ کی دیوار ہُوا کرتے ہیں
Woh jo sach bolte rehne ki qasam khaate hain
وہ جو سچ بولتے رہنے کی قسم کھاتے ہیں
Woh adalat mein gunahgaar hua karte hain
وہ عدالت میں گُنہگار ہُوا کرتے ہیں
Sirf haathon ko na dekho kabhi aankhein bhi paro
صرف ہاتھوں کو نہ دیکھو کبھی آنکھیں بھی پڑھو
Kuch sawaali bade khuddaar hua karte hain
کچھ سوالی بڑے خودار ہُوا کرتے ہیں
Woh jo pathar yunhi raste mein paday rehte hain
وہ جو پتھر یونہی رستے میں پڑے رہتے ہیں
Un ke seene mein bhi shahkaar hua karte hain
اُن کے سینے میں بھی شہکار ہُوا کرتے ہیں
Subah ki pehli kiran jin ko rula deti hai
صبح کی پہلی کرن جن کو رُلا دیتی ہے
Woh sitaaron ke azaadaar hua karte hain
وہ ستاروں کے عزادار ہُوا کرتے ہیں
Jin ki aankhon mein sada pyaas ke sehra chamken
جن کی آنکھوں میں سدا پیاس کے صحرا چمکیں
Dar haqeeqat wohi fankaar hua karte hain
در حقیقت وہی فنکار ہُوا کرتے ہیں
Sharm aati hai ke dushman kise samjhein mohsin
شرم آتی ہے کہ دُشمن کِسے سمجھیں محسن
Dushmani ke bhi to mayaar hua karte hain
دُشمنی کے بھی تو معیار ہُوا کرتے ہیں


Marahil-e-shauq ke dushwaar hua karte hain

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